10 Top Tips for Children Who Chew: A Guide for Parents

Why do some children chew excessively?

Chewing is a totally natural and normal behaviour for children, especially during their early years. We all know babies and young toddlers put everything in their mouths, from toys and shoes to cat food, sand and even snails….I always found the eating of sand in particular grossed me out!!
Although it is a natural behaviour we expect to see in very young kids and is a part of exploring the world around them, for many children, especially those with additional needs, chewing can continue well into the older years. Some children develop excessive chewing habits which are causing damage to clothes, objects or have developed into self-injurious behaviour such as biting their hands. In this blog post, we will explore 10 top tips to help parents dealing with excessive chewing.

1. Understanding the Root Cause:

2. Providing Safe Chew Toys:

Invest in safe, high quality chew necklaces for your child. Chewable necklaces are a fantastic tool for redirecting your child’s chewing behaviour away from inappropriate objects, like lego, clothing and ipads! It’s also helpful to ensure their safety and help prevent damage to teeth and gums as well as reduce the likelihood of ingesting something dangerous.
Chew necklaces can also help prevent damage to expensive school clothing and other objects. I’ve heard of so many children going through expensive logo school jumpers at a speedy rate!

3. Offer Chewable Foods:

Chewing provides excellent proprioceptive feedback (check out this blog by Neurodivergent Insights to read more about proprioception and how it helps us regulate our emotions). Certain foods provide much more resistance than others, meaning the jaw has to work harder to break them down. This intense, strong pressure in the jaw provides deep stimulation of the proprioceptive system, which has a hugely calming impact on the chewer. This is one of the many reasons our kids may have a strong need to chew; it helps them to feel calm!
Offering really crunchy and chewy foods is a fabulous way to help provide your kids with a way to safely meet this need.

4. Use Chewing Tools at the right times:

Have your chews at the ready! Make sure you have your chewy tools with you for any high stress/anxiety situations. Whether these are chew toys or crunchy foods, if you’re on your way to a busy/noisy/stressful environment, going armed with some practical items to whip out as needed will help you all to feel calmer.

As soon as your child shows signs of becoming anxious/stressed, provide them with their chew/crunchy food/fiddly toy and briefly explain why you are giving it to them. “You’re feeling stressed, here’s your chew, it will help you feel calmer.”
If your kids are chewing their clothing even though they’re wearing a chew, a gentle redirect to the chew and praise when they then use it is a great start.

Introducing these tools at these key moments will help your child to associate the chew/item with feeling calmer and more regulated. In time, they will hopefully seek out the tools independently (for example by starting to use the chew themselves without being asked) and learn to better self-regulate!
Praise can really help with this, so if your kiddo starts using a new chew by themselves in a stressful situation, be sure to recognise this and tell them how great they’re doing.

5. Sensory Activities at home:

Taking part in more sensory activities like playing with playdough, using textured brushes, or finger painting can really help our kids to feel calmer across the board.

My eldest needs to MOVE. Jumping, climbing and swinging, bouncing etc go a long way towards him feeling calmer. My youngest is more into textures and gets a lot out of things like play dough or finger painting.

6. Positive Reinforcement:

Don’t forget to praise your kids for self-regulating! “You were feeling really cross, so you got out your chew and did some chomping. Now you feel calmer. Good work!”
Recognising they have a need and seeking out an appropriate calming strategy is bloody brilliant and needs recognition.

It can take time for a chewing habit to be transferred from (for example) chewing a school jumper to chewing a sensory necklace. Gentle redirection to the designated chewy item and positive reinforcement for using the item really can make a big difference. Be patient but consistent and understand for many kids, they were happy chewing on their clothes and it can take some time to change a habit like this.

7. Seek Professional Help if Needed:

If for your kid, excessive chewing/chewing inappropriate items/biting persists despite your best efforts at following the above (and significantly impacts yours or your child’s daily life), do consider consulting a healthcare professional or an occupational therapist.
The right professional will assess your child’s specific needs and provide tailored strategies to manage the specific behaviour effectively, such as devising a ‘sensory diet’ plan for your child, with sensory activities specially designed to meet their individual sensory needs.

I know it can be really hard to get the right support, but it’s well worth trying to get a referral to an Occupational Therapist and getting a tailor-made sensory plan. With all the right things in place, it can be life-changing if sensory needs can be well managed.

8. Teach Relaxation Techniques:

If your child is on board, teaching your child relaxation techniques such as deep breathing or simple yoga exercises is a great way to help them self-regulate when they’re feeling anxious or stressed.

Many schools are teaching mindfulness as part of the curriculum these days. My 6 year old recently talked to me about five finger breathing and suggested I use it to help stay calmer (I was trying to get everyone out of the house and to school without losing it; this suggests I wasn’t appearing as calm as I thought!).
There are so many fantastic free tools for helping children practice mindfulness, check out these free resources.

9. Establish Consistent Routines:

10. Be Patient and Supportive:

Lastly, try to be patient and supportive in reducing excessive chewing in your kids. As frustrating as it can be to deal with, our kids aren’t doing this to wind us up, they’re actually trying hard to meet their own needs, with whatever is close at hand. If you think about it, that’s really hugely positive!